I'm Emma Hewitt (CHSE)

Certified Holistic Sex Educator, writer, podcaster, host & sex toy expert. I provide fun, science-backed sex education to people of all sexualities & genders.

I’m kink-aware, queer-friendly and a total nerd when it comes to sex. If there’s a book, film, tv show or podcast about sex or pleasure, I’m probably into it. Because I love to study, learn about and talk about sex.

My career in sex education started many moons ago when I was hired as a content writing intern at Adulttoymegastore in 2014. At the time, I had never even tried a sex toy, now I have more toys than I can fit in my house and I’m a leading sex toy expert here in little old NZ.

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First and foremost I’m a sex writer with work published in Stuff, Mamamia, Beducated, VIVA, Capsule & Adulttoymegastore.

I've also been quoted in Stuff, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Ask Men, VIVA, Newshub, the NZ Herald, ReNews, Today FM and the Edge.

I teach using the biopsychosocial approach to sex education. With the understanding that our sexual expression consists of an interaction between biological, psychological and social factors.  Our bodies, our minds, our upbringing, and the media messages we consume all impact our sexuality. 

I also create video content for Adulttoymegastore and write & co-host the award-winning ATMS podcast the Electric Rodeo with my pal Tash Bull.

I've worked with Gender Minorities Aotearoa, the Capital & Coast District Health Board & AWWA.

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My credentials

Semrush Content-led Search Engine Optimisation with Brian Dean. 2024.

Certified Holistic Sex Educator via the Institute for Sexuality Education & Enlightenment (ISEE). 2023.

3-day SAR (Sexual Attitude Reassessment) via ISEE. 2022.

Bachelor of Communications Honours Degree majoring in Media Studies via Massey University. 2013.

Bachelor of Communications majoring in Media Studies & Journalism via Massey University. 2011.

Supervision

I received 8 hours of group supervision with Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo, the founder & director of ISEE and President of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT).
I received 8 hours of group supervision with Dr. Melanie Davis, an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator and CSE Supervisor, a professional development provider, consultant, and human sexuality adjunct professor.

Girl, I'm a sex nerd!

If there’s a book, film, tv show or podcast about sex or pleasure, I’m probably into it. Because I love to study, learn about and talk about sex.

I’ve worked in the sex toy industry since 2014 starting as an intern at Adulttoymegastore. When I started, I had never even tried a sex toy, now I’m an expert with more toys than I can fit in my house (for real, it’s actually a bit of a problem).

Now I’m a Certified Sex Educator through the Institute of Sexuality & Enlightenment providing fun, science-backed sex education to people of all genders.

I specialise in

Balancing libido discrepancies
Working through pleasure difficulties
Safe, sexy and fun anal play
Communication skills
Arousal, libido & desire
Shame-free masturbation
Kink & BDSM
Tools & toys for sex
Sex & pleasure education

The Electric Rodeo Podcast

I write, produce & co-host The Electric Rodeo Podcast which won bronze in the NZ Podcast Awards for the best sex & relationships podcast in 2022.

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Em in Toy Mail

My newsletter includes my latest blog posts, exclusive content, and other fun sex & sex toy news!
And probably photos of my dog Pixie.

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